These designs have failed us. But that's okay.

Sometimes it's okay to have expectations, and for them not to be met. It's okay to want something and then to not get it. In fact, it happens all the time. You can be upset about it, or you can choose to see the best in the situation. There is always an upside to whatever it is you're going through. Stressed that someone you like isn't texting you back? Sure, you could choose to be upset about it, or you could choose to be thankful for the confirmation that you care. If you didn't care, you wouldn't worry! If you were hoping for something to be something in particular, but it turned out a different way, you can rejoice in the opportunity to reframe. When things happen exactly how they're supposed to happen, life can get tragically boring.