When do you become emergency contact official with your partner?

Dating can be a tricky game at first. Maybe you're trying to hide your cards just a little bit so as not to come on too strong. You're doing a delicate dance of wanting to reel the other person in, figuring out who they are, and deciding what kind of life you could have together, if any. But if something goes wrong within the first couple of months, and you don't have a solid enough foundation to back it up, then the right thing could end for the wrong reasons. This is why dating is delicate, especially at first. You're probably worried about getting into something too fast and it ending just as quickly. But it's also natural to bond with the people that you're dating, and that sometimes happens fast, and you can't help that. But when one of you is moving at a different speed than the other, that's when things get a little bit strange. That's what the man in this story thought was happening when a girl who he had been seeing for two months (which is barely any time) listed him as an emergency contact.